The 5 Tips To Meeting Single Girls In College

It’s mid-August, and I’ve been inundated with emails from guys who are asking for specific advice about meeting girls in college.

Now I was certainly no stud back in my university days, but through learning to get good with women I have certainly picked up many nuggets of wisdom that I just wish I had known back then! Term starts again in a couple of weeks time so I thought I’d read around the subject a bit so that I could bring you my top tips for meeting girls at college!

1. Don’t Do Cold Approaches!

Doing daygame is great. Doing daygame is amazing. I’ve met more beautiful girls doing daygame than I ever thought possible… but that doesn’t mean that it’s the most effective way for meeting girls in college.

What!? Andy Yosha is telling us not to do daygame!?

When you see that gorgeous girl pass you as you trudge down the pavement, if you ever want to meet her, you pretty much have one shot and one opportunity in that moment to do so: that is the beauty of daygame.

College game however, could not be more different. Firstly you are spending 3-4 years with the same group of people, so there is no immediate rush to number close all the hot girls on campus within the first week, and secondly you don’t want to get a reputation for being the guy that hits on all the hot girls in exactly the same way.

2. Do Not Peacock!

Good dressers are those who are dressed just a little better than the environment they’re in. They don’t look stupidly out of place, but they do stand out in very subtle and unique ways. Wearing Armani suits around college is going to get you nowhere.

Check out Ollie’s podcast for some more fashion advice. But I’m going to go out on a limb and assume that you don’t have a huge budget for clothing. The main criteria of any piece of clothing is that it should accentuate the good elements of your physique. If a garment fits well then it will make no difference whether it’s from Primark or Dolce & Gabbana.

3. Talk To Everyone!

Meeting girls in college is all about social-circle game. Believe it or not, the quickest way to expand your social circle is by talking to new people. I know, sounds crazy, but trust me on this one! Marcus has written a great article about how to talk to people you don’t know which I recommend everyone in college reads to get an idea of how to be more sociable with everyone. Make friends with the really sociable people that just know everyone, and they will introduce you to their entire social-circle.

A great way to do this is throw yourself at every opportunity that comes your way to meet as many people as you can. Join teams, societies and start saying YES to everything!

4. Don’t Game Girls Until You’re The Man Around Campus

What I mean by this is that you should hold off on pulling the trigger with the really hot girls until you’ve got a good opportunity to do so.

The 3-second rule does not apply in college.

If a girl is walking like a stormtrooper and most likely late for class on her first day, it makes no sense to approach her when the risk is so high, when you will inevitably run into her again in better circumstances.

Build up a social circle, and surround yourself with cool people and people will start to talk about you. Always be sociable and flirt with everyone, but keep it in the back of your mind that you have plenty of time to make a move so don’t be too eager.

Having said this don’t use this as an excuse to never speak to any girls!

A sign that you’re becoming familiar enough with girls to start hitting on them, is when their “hello’s” start to get warmer. I would suggest even waiting until they suggest that you hang out with them, or they invite you out to a party. Until then, just be a cool, sociable, fun guy who has no agenda.

5. Prioritise!

The aspect of college that we tend to all forget about is the work. Unfortunately it’s a pretty big aspect of college life, and something that you have to take into consideration. You can rack up thousands in student loans, party all day and night, go to no classes and get absolutely nothing from college if that is what you want. Many people do it, but they live to regret it. Remember why you’re primarily there: for an education. Never neglect important work for girls.

Manage your time so that you get all your shit done, so you have as much time as possible for having fun!

I played a lot of videogames when I arrived at college, and I think this is the case with a lot of guys. Halo was the big one when I was there… and the instant messaging… and a million other little distractions that serve no real purpose in your life except to kill time.

The decision of how you spend your time is ultimately yours: Do you want to go out at and party at night, or do you want stay in and play Halo during the day?

Homework and assignments still have to get completed, so something has to be sacrificed.

Conquer You Campus, written by Mark Redman (a book I highly recommend to anyone in College) lays out the authors priorities in college:

• Getting good grades
• Having fun socially
• Staying in shape
• Personal growth
• Professional work (If applicable)

Make a list of your own, and stick to it. Remind yourself of it, live by it. Anything that leads you away from it, get rid of, it’s not necessary.

Aside from the work, college years are for great parties, wild nights and they truly are some of the best years of your life. Use them wisely.

Andy