Getting phone numbers? Awesome – plough on fellow daygamer! You’re doing well! But there is another route to take the interaction if it is going well.
Your next mission, should you choose to accept it, is to take a girl on an instant date.
So the purpose of this video (and article) is to explain how to get a girl to date you immediately, instead of getting her phone number and organising a date for later.
Firstly, you have to check for logistics during the conversation. If she’s meeting friends in 5 minutes, or needs to catch a bus, then the chances of her agreeing to to come on an instant date with you are small. If she has nothing to do for the next half an hour though, then you know that the logistics are on your side.
An easy way to find out what she’s up to during the conversation is just to simply ask her what she’s up to – or even better, make an assuption about what she’s doing now, and in the next half an hour, and she will correct you if you’re assumption is wrong (thereby giving the logistical information you need).
Once you’re sure an instant date is on the cards, it’s all about suggesting it in the right way.
If you want to know how to get a girl to date you instantly, follow these easy steps.
Step 1 – Tell her you’ve got to shoot off to do some shopping/meet some friends/etc in about half an hour.
If she knows you are only available for about half an hour this will increase the chances of her agreeing to come along, as she won’t be worried that you want to spend all day with her (incase you turn out to be a crazy person!).
Step 2 – Tell her you were about to go and grab a quick coffee, and it would be cool she came along.
The fact that you were going for one anyway takes off more pressure, as you’re not going too much out of your way just for her.
Step 3 – LEAD.
It’s not a question; ‘would you like to come along?’ – you’re saying it like ‘come on, i’ll buy a coffee. It’s just round this corner’. And start walking with her. It’s all about leading – taking all the responsibility away from her. All she has to do is ‘go along with it’, which is what will happen in most cases, providing the interaction has been going really well.
The cool thing about this kind of instant date technique is that even if she says no, it leads smoothly into a number close. Just tell her something like “ok cool, well i’ve gotta go cause i haven’t had a coffee all day and I’m feeling pretty tired cause i didn’t sleep too well last night. We’ll do it another time – *get phone out*, put your digits in there and i’ll text you in a few days when I’m free.”
Hope that helps guys! As usual, any comments on this article “How To Get A Girl To Date You Instantly (Instant Date)” leave them below!