There’s a special mystery guest on the show this week….”Mr A”….a natural who has added Daygame to his repertoire. Tom chats to him about the key mindsets of a natural and how they apply to Daygame, as well as mining him for practical examples.
Mr A’s Mindsets covered:
* Breaking The Wall – Like Andy’s state-shifting concept, Mr A is a firm believer in bulldozing through AA by warming up until a tipping point is reached.
* Yes-Maybe-No Girls – Mr A sees game as turning over stones or opening boxes to find the girls that are responsive to it. Not taking each “no” as a failure, but seeing them as a necessary filter, is key.
* Becoming The HB10 – being non-reactive, getting girls to chase you by pushing them away, as a tool for sleeping with the hottest girls.
* Compliance – Mr A views all “techniques” as getting girls to comply. He likes to test for compliance (physical/verbal) as soon as possible, not to waste time on girls who are a road-to-nowhere.
There are practical tips from Tom and Mr A – from how to open with an accusation to why singing to a girl can save your skin!
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heyy here is some really good stuff on this podcast
its a must listen to all !!! PS produce more please!!!!1
Hey, is Mr. A from Germany or Austria?
Listening to this new guy made me want to slit my wrists. He is so boring and he has a very depressive way of talking.
He told me he’s “from heaven”
One of the best podcasts in a while. Really enjoyed it, love his philosophy.
Anyone interested in training write to: andres.re10@gmail.com
Mr A
Sorry, but…
is THAT really the new philosophy of daygame.com?
How to trick girls into bed using manipulative bullshit?
Where is Andy and – where is Sasha??? I miss them. Both.
:’-(
@ ralf…
Which ppart of this podcast tells you to use “manipulative bullshit”?
Mr A talks about intent and going for it, not using “techniques” or a model. How is that manipulative? Sasha teaches a shit load of lines and routines, making his “direct” approach dancing monkey.
This dude is just giving his opinion…doesn’t mean it’s the philosophy of daygame.com
where does Mr A talk about intent and going for it?
He talks about “spiking her out of the bubble” with some stupid C&F. LOL, I just thought of Sean Connery or any other REAL MAN doing that LOL
No not LOL. It’s too painful to laugh about that
:’-(
And then… “you just see her going into the bubble [...] just take your phone, check your phone, you put it down, and you say: ‘I’m really sorry, I have to leave’. It feels terribe” – wasn’t that what Mr A said?
You may call that “intent” and “going for it”. I call it “manipulative bullshit”.
Another example:
“if a girl starts testing me really heavily, I just look at her, I sing: ‘I believe I can fly’, and then they start repeating what they’re saying and they do so much, ‘no but did you hear what I said, this club is really shit’- ‘I believe I can…’, it just makes them feel so weird”
Let’s be honest Snazzy: is this the kind of behaviour you would expect from a MAN, a REAL MAN, a man you would respect? Or is it the behaviour of some little 16 year old boy, using some stuipd insecure asshole behaviour to get girls into bed?
Snazzy, let me ask you a question.
If you had a little daughter, would you like her to be treated like this?
Agreed, Mr A sounds bloody direct and no-bullshit in my book!
Hey Guys,
Mr A here with a quick clarification on some things. A podcast is usually quick and dirty and you can never put everything in the right context. I apologise if I confused some people here and there. Cheers for all the great comments!
Just to set the record straight: I am very direct and I think that most guys aren’t as direct as I am; the first thing Beckster said to me when we met back in the days was: “You escalate heavily, but that’s not really a problem.”
Firstly, I can understand why some people would think that some tips I gave sound manipulative. The fact is that you will meet women that are rude (manipulative) and if you have no way of dealing with their behaviour you will get manipulated. So credo is the following for me: adapt or be manipulated. Maybe some of you remember going on a date with a woman and she flaked on you 10min before the date, or she arrived with a friend and was 30min late, or she gave you a quick time constraint once you met (sorry, I can only stay 1h), or she keeps checking her phone and taking phone calls all the time. If you can relate to that then you a) have made some experience and you are on your way and b) you know that I am realistic. Experience tells you what kind of behaviour you can expect from a woman. As soon as I see a behaviour surfacing I will adapt; I adapt, I don’t manipulate that’s a big difference. If, say, a girl gave me a 1h time constraint on a date (that’s rude in my eyes because I set time aside to meet her and I am a busy man) then I will simply cut the date even shorter and do something else instead (let’s say cut it after 30min). I will take a phone call and excuse myself in a friendly way. That’s not manipulation, that’s knowing my personal boundaries and giving her the chance to realise that I am not the kind of guy that she can play with. If she comes out, she is out with me: no games and no tricks. If she starts playing games I show her implicitly or explicitly what my boundaries are and give her one more chance to behave like an adult. If she chooses to not behave like an adult, I am out. That’s clear and grown up behaviour. It has nothing to do with manipulation, but with knowing your boundaries as a person.
Secondly, I mention at the very end that I don’t believe in a structured approach to interacting with women. What you really want is to be totally present and to be with the girl and most importantly to be genuine, real and to be yourself. (For beginners: please try out everything in the book. get a structure, get lines, follow whatever you think will work. Time will let you get rid of most lines and structure, but that takes practice. Most guys have to learn a bit of “game” in order to unlearn it all later.) However, I suggest to FOCUS PURELY ON EMOTIONS and to think of the interaction in terms of you and her sharing a beautiful moment together. As long as you and her feel good it is mutually on. All theory and technique go right out the window as soon as you both ENJOY THE INTERACTION.
It is my character to be cheeky-chappy/dirty-flirty/cocky-funny and it is my strenght as well. Obviously, calibration comes into play: some girls are higher energy and they would much rather have a wild adventure than talking about art exhibitions or interesting books. And again, depending on the girl I can tone down or dial up my energy and the conversational topics, including the intent and directness I think is apropriate. I am best with high energy and fun loving girls. However, I have to enjoy the girls presence and I have to like her to keep the interaction going. Some you like and others you don’t; that’s the nature of the game. It is important to realise that we are all different people and everyone enjoys different aspects of life. At the end of the day you can’t cheat your way into someones heart. People start liking each other for different reasons and all that matters is that you are happy to be around the girl and that she is happy being around you. I personally would like my daughter to be happy. Who cares whether the guy she likes is a real “alpha male”. If you are a silver back gorilla then that’s cool with me as well. There is some monkey ladies out there who are just looking for that. Russains or Eastern Europeans in general are more likely to enjoy the “alpha” stuff. As a matter of fact, if I was to interact with a Russian girl, I become much more direct, leading and dominating. I dial down the jokes and focus on genuine deep rapport. That’s adaption. But one warning for all the “pure alpha males” or “M1 followers” is the following: be careful that you never forget to love what you are doing…. WOMEN
As usual, it’s been emotional, don’t change
Mr A.
andres.re10@gmail.com
W.O.W!! So much truth in every line. My point about field experience vs keyboard jocks is shown here in black and white. I’m getting off the laptop and out on the streets right now!! Thanks Mr A!!
one of the best podcasts on here guys, really good mix of inner and outer game. You can tell these guys are talking from 100s of real sets, not just keyboard jocking. I don’t think you should leave comments on here unless you go out and try this stuff. A lot.