Tom Torero

Top Ten Daygame Mistakes

I gave a talk last night to the London Seduction Society entitled “Fail More!” In it I emphasised how getting good with women is something that can only be learned in an experiential way (i.e. going out and trying it). …

By • In Beliefs, Body Language, Confidence, Dating & Relationships, Dating Advice, Getting a Date, Inner Game, Mindset, Outer Game, Self-Esteem, What To Say on February 18, 2012 5

Valentine’s Stories

Well, how did it go? If you tried some daygame on Valentine’s Day, or went on a date, let us know the good, the bad and the ugly by leaving a comment below. Mine involved not putting all my eggs …

By • In Stories, The Blog on February 17, 2012 1

Blagging It

Health warning: I am not advocating lying or manipulation when it comes to women. Take this post with a healthy dose of cheekiness.  Either you know someone who’s a blagger, or you enjoy a bit of blagging yourself…winging a presentation at …

By • In Random, Stories, The Blog on February 10, 2012 3

To Charm The Pants Off…

An excellent article in today’s London Evening Standard on the elusive quality of charm, that every daygamer should strive to have buckets of: Charm? According to the Oxford English Dictionary, it is “any quality, attribute, trait, feature, etc, which exerts …

By • In Random, The Blog on January 31, 2012 2

Hidden Hottie

Definition: an attractive girl covering up her beauty either to avoid attention or for practical reasons (Tom Torero) When I chased after and stopped the Hungarian model that I’m seeing at the moment, one cold, dark bootcamp in December, the …

By • In Stories, The Blog on January 22, 2012 1

2011 Stats Revealed

Some seriously geeky number crunching has produced some seriously interesting revelations about my dating life this year. There’s not time or space to reveal it all here (we’re doing a 2-day seminar using it in early 2012) but I thought …

By • In News, The Blog on December 31, 2011 8

Two-On-Two

John and Tom out fishing in Oslo How do you run a two-set? That’s a very common question guys have each week on the bootcamp, and something that we go through in detail. We might do a whole podcast on …

By • In Random, The Blog on December 29, 2011 6

The Amazing Everyday

Saw this just now and made me smile. It’s one of the beautiful things about daygame that by transcending “social norms,” the urban life is transformed and magical effects happen. Any daygame outing can light up people’s faces, be full …

By • In Random, The Blog on December 22, 2011 0

A Beer With Beckster

Got a call from my good friend Rob (Beckster) to go for a beer with him and his girlfriend tonight, south of the river. As one of the world’s best night game pick-up artists (who games with Mystery, Style, Ross …

By • In Random, The Blog on December 16, 2011 1

From Russia, With Love

Kiss-close caught on film It’s been a right Russian couple of days with daygame. From the beginning I’ve found that my style of game is well-suited to Russian women. They enjoy the bluntness of direct street compliments and a clear …

By • In News, The Blog on December 12, 2011 2

Three’s A Crowd?

External Interrupt: An abrupt change in the internal dynamics of a set, often caused by someone else’s arrival  It can happen to all of us, not just in a bar or club but during street daygame too. You’re happily bantering …

By • In Stories, The Blog on December 7, 2011 5

Dating Diary

It’s been a crazy few weeks of going on a string of dates…not just your regular “Day2″ drinks, but with Martin our undercover daygame.com cameraman in tow for a new product. Picture the scene. I’m sitting next to a girl …

By • In Random, The Blog on November 29, 2011 1

Bootcamp Insider

Asger closing two Swedish girls today It’s been a great few weeks of bootcamps, with the shorter days and colder weather not making a difference. We’ve had some amazing students and stories (including getting stuck in a lift today at …

By • In News, The Blog on November 20, 2011 2

Diary Of A Daygamer

By popular demand, I thought I’d share with you a typical week’s worth of numbers/responses/dates so guys get a realistic picture of what goes on. The old saying “you’ve got to be in it to win it” is certainly true, …

By • In Stories, The Blog on November 11, 2011 5

Elephant In The Room

Elephant in the Room: n. metaphorical idiom for an obvious truth that is being ignored or goes unaddressed. This is an underused but key concept in daygame, from helping girls hook to getting her into your bed. Time and time …

By • In Random, The Blog on November 6, 2011 5