Tom Torero
Top Ten Daygame Mistakes
I gave a talk last night to the London Seduction Society entitled “Fail More!” In it I emphasised how getting good with women is something that can only be learned in an experiential way (i.e. going out and trying it). …
By Tom Torero • In Beliefs, Body Language, Confidence, Dating & Relationships, Dating Advice, Getting a Date, Inner Game, Mindset, Outer Game, Self-Esteem, What To Say on February 18, 2012 9
To Charm The Pants Off…
An excellent article in today’s London Evening Standard on the elusive quality of charm, that every daygamer should strive to have buckets of: Charm? According to the Oxford English Dictionary, it is “any quality, attribute, trait, feature, etc, which exerts …
By Tom Torero • In Random, The Blog on January 31, 2012 2
The Amazing Everyday
Saw this just now and made me smile. It’s one of the beautiful things about daygame that by transcending “social norms,” the urban life is transformed and magical effects happen. Any daygame outing can light up people’s faces, be full …
By Tom Torero • In Random, The Blog on December 22, 2011 0
Bootcamp Insider
Asger closing two Swedish girls today It’s been a great few weeks of bootcamps, with the shorter days and colder weather not making a difference. We’ve had some amazing students and stories (including getting stuck in a lift today at …
By Tom Torero • In News, The Blog on November 20, 2011 2
Elephant In The Room
Elephant in the Room: n. metaphorical idiom for an obvious truth that is being ignored or goes unaddressed. This is an underused but key concept in daygame, from helping girls hook to getting her into your bed. Time and time …
By Tom Torero • In Random, The Blog on November 6, 2011 5
Eye Player
It’s been said a thousand times before, but holding eye contact oozes confidence and value. It has taken me a year of direct street game, however, to appreciate just how important our eyes are when interacting with women. In this …
By Tom Torero • In Body Language, Outer Game on August 5, 2011 13
Instant Dates – The Adventure Bubble To Success
So you’ve committed to going out and hitting the streets. You’ve mastered the art of stopping moving girls (even the storm-trooper ones!) and making them feel comfortable to stop and vibe with you for a few minutes. They’re crossing their …
By Tom Torero • In Outer Game, What To Say on February 25, 2011 8
Bungee Jumping Into the Now
The ability to be in the present moment is a major component of mental wellness. ~Abraham Maslow You leave your house, ready to hit the streets for some daygame. Your head is full of remnants of worries about work, family, shopping, …
By Tom Torero • In Inner Game, Mindset on December 26, 2010 6
The Importance Of Leading
“Speak softly and carry a big stick” -Theodore Roosevelt Do Nice Guys Really Finish Last? “Nice guys finish last” – That was a belief I held from “evidence” I had experienced growing up in high school and university, where girls …
By Tom Torero • In Dating & Relationships, Dating Advice on November 17, 2010 6
