Here’s a new infield for you, guys. This one is part of the Daygame Anywhere series. This time it’s me approaching a girl on a train platform.
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There’s not many websites that I visit over and over (logging off is a key part of the Badass Buddha!) but here’s one of them that’s a staple for me: The Art Of Manliness. It’s a blog all about “uncovering the lost art of being a man” written by a husband/wife team from the States. Think of it like wisdom from your grandfather, your father or the male role models of old when the healthy polarity between men and women was much more obvious. Expect to read information on everything from carving a turkey to polishing your shoes.
A great post from that site is 100 Must Read Books: The Man’s Essential Library.
A key part of being an attractive man is having a grasp on literature, on culture, on geography, on history, on science, on ideas and philosophies – not in the sense of lecturing the girl and showing off your high IQ. Quite the opposite. Seduction is all about firing her emotions, and a man who can talk with energy, passion and a zest for life about a broad range of topics is naturally attractive and the opposite of the boring geek.
Check out the Top 100 reads and let me know if you think they’ve missed out on any titles by leaving them below. Happy Sunday
Letting a girl speak and open up is the best thing you can do. Once she starts to tell you things about herself, she’s now investing. She’s feeling more comfortable with you and she’s going to feel like the two of you have a connection.
We see plenty of guys in an interaction with a girl having a great conversation, and as she is speaking he is eager to cut her off and tell her the next best thing on his mind. This is only going to ruin your conversations and not make her feel as connected to you as it would have if you would have sat back and just listened. By listening more you’re going to have more genuine conversations and reduce flakes.
Here it is, the MOST requested video we get asked for. This is the Number 1 “Sticking Point” that guys have with daygame, after getting over their Approach Anxiety. Teasing.
Remember that it’s kind of a Part II to this video called “Attraction Is In The Push” where I summarise the whole of the Attraction elements of daygame and dating. Watch that video first so that this one makes complete sense!
Being light-hearted, playful and positive is the opposite of being in your head, serious and logical, and that’s the place that teasing has to come from. Note that teasing is NOT comedy or telling jokes. The idea is to treat her like a little sister, not like it’s a stand-up comedy club. We’re trying to break rapport with the girl in the Attraction Phase of the Daygame Blueprint to trigger attraction instead of landing in the Friend Zone.
In the video I go over WHY we need to tease a girl, HOW to tease her, WHAT to tease her about and give you ACTION STEPS to implement this advice. Remember that this video is only the motivation part of the puzzle – you have to go and take action in a habitual form in order to get results!
It took me ages to edit and upload this video, and it’s something that guys keep nagging me about all the time, so I really hope it fill in the blanks and helps with this critical area of daygame.
http://www.daygame.com - Sam gives you some handy tips on what to do when you find that one girl who captures your attention.
If you want to find that one girl you’re looking for check out the bootcamp page and get ready for some adventures -http://www.daygame.com/live-events/
I’m in wildest Russia with a vlog all about smashing through the self-imposed glass ceiling that we have when it comes to meeting, attracting and dating the hottest girls.
Now I know that beauty is just skin deep, and being obsessed with rating women and going for looks alone is misguided, but I reveal why it matters so much to guys and what the pursuit really symbolises.
Give it a watch and let me know what you think by leaving your comments below. Onwards and inwards
If teasing is something you’re not completely comfortable with or it’s something that is new for you then the chances are you are not committing 100% to what you are saying when you tease.
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“And suddenly I realised I was no longer driving the car consciously. I was driving it by a kind of instinct, only I was in another dimension” Ayrton Senna
This man or movie should really need no introduction, but if you’re not a motor racing or Formula 1 fan like me then I’d still urge you to watch this documentary. Very quickly you realise this is not about cars, this is about one man pushing his limits to the edge. Utterly gripping and enormously inspiring. Live your passion.
Know all the theory but still don’t approach? A daygame fan but unable to leave your computer behind? Addicted to the videos and podcasts, but not leaving your house to hit the streets? This video is specifically for YOU!
I go over my FOUR TOP TIPS for getting started with meeting and attracting girls during the day:
- Logging off
- Getting over Approach Anxiety through State Shifting
- Finding a partner to do it with
- Being disciplined and coming up with a schedule
Hope the video helps you get into gear. Let me know what action you took by leaving a comment below!
“Every man must decide whether he will walk in the light of creative altruism or destructive selfishness” Martin Luther King Jr
“Let us try to teach generosity and altruism, because we are born selfish” Richard Dawkins
“Love only grows by sharing. You can only have more for yourself by giving it away to others” Brian Tracy
I’m in chilly Helsinki, Finland, talking about why a win-win mindset to daygame and social interactions is the only long term successful strategy. I discuss the difference between taking and giving value in your daygame and wider communication with others.
Ejecting too early. We’ve all done it. We run out of things to say and then the only thing we have left to do is to say “was nice meeting you” and leave.
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Live from the infamous couch, Sam stresses to you the importance of not hesitating before you approach and gives you some handy tips on how to keep the excuses at bay.
A great excerpt from the late Alan Watts, British philosopher and writer. I want to stress that Watts’ teachings and thoughts are not to be misinterpreted as religious doctrine or any kind of evangelism. Watts transcended defined religions by looking for the common message, by getting to the heart of what matters in terms of human existence.
Have a look on Youtube for hours of his talks made into videos. The idea is not to make you want to run for the hills and live in a cabin chanting and meditating all day. Quite the opposite. What Watts gives me is a reminder of the importance of living life to its fullest. Seizing the day, taking action and living intensely, whilst remembering that everything is transient and will pass.
Here’s my take on the traditional Blueprint model, where I describe how polyphonic chords and patterns are generated from the three separate melodies of Attraction, Rapport and Seduction. Told you I was a nerd
For a concise primer to get you going with our model live on the street, using hidden camera footage of us doing it for real, check out the product Date Against The Machine where we break it all down in situ.