“Hey guys, (Yad, Tom, Jon, Andy et al.)
I don’t know if you guys like to here people’s stories, but here’s mine. I apologize for the wall of text.
My name is Bob and I’ve led a pretty lonely life. I moved a lot, a truly ridiculous number of times, so while everyone else was pairing off in high school, figuring things out as teenagers, I was always the new kid so I
never was able to really participate socially in anything. I missed out on a lot of, what I consider now to be, really key experiences in a young man’s life. That kind of life makes you strong in some ways but it leaves some pretty big holes in ones development.
It leads to a real detachment from people, like I was a scientist watching an alien species not really understanding why the subjects I watched did the things they did. I’m not autistic or anything, but the level of isolation that I experienced had really done a number on me (I talk to the radio and TV an alarming amount :)). To say the least, my social muscle has been severely under developed.
Now, I’m 34, and have never been on a date. Never kissed a girl, never held hands, never been on a date. Over time that wore on me. I tried to convince myself that I didn’t need people or relationships for a long time, but in the back of my mid I always wanted something more. Out of life and out of the relationships I did have.
I started looking into the PUA community as much for a systematization of social interaction as a way of getting laid. I wanted great friends as well as the potential for a great woman in my life. The problem that I found was most of it felt kinda slimy. There were a few guys out there preaching authenticity, but by and large it was scummy guys trying to get there dicks wet by any means necessary. Then I found your podcast.
The daygame.com podcast opened doors in so many ways. I love the attitude this crew has about women and dating. It’s fun and games as opposed to mortal combat, and while you all seem to know your shit, you are also just
a bunch of bros that you could hang out with. Jon you’re the one I identify the strongest with, but Yad, you’re a goddamned artist. I could listen to you all day. Just the way that you describe the process, and your interactions with women is incredible.
I’ve bought several of your products online and have gone over the material at least twice each, not counting my latest purchase. The Daygame Blueprint is amazing, not only in it’s clarity, but as well as how concise it is. Andy is very good at laying it all out visually, My social life has picked up pretty dramatically and I feel I owe you guys big debt. My ability to hold conversations and interact with people has improved a great deal. Hell I went to a party the other day and was chatting up complete strangers using some of the stuff Tom teaches.
I started a new job recently and I have no idea who that guy is being friendly and confident. Talking to complete strangers like he owns the place. It’s been a truly amazing transformation, and having recently
purchased ‘The Girlfriend Sequence’ I’m hoping to attract a quality girl into my life, maybe punch my V card instead of celebrating my 35th anniversary with ol’ righty. These products give me hope that skill with women is not innate, that it can be learned.
While I still have a long way to go before I’m the man that I want to be. I still don’t understand everything and I still need to work up the courage to get out there on the street and get numbers, but your products and
stories have inspired me to be better. I realize that I’m gushing and that I don’t actually know any of you really and you probably get a lot of these emails, but I just wanted to say thank you. Thank you for providing tools to guys like me to be able to dig themselves out of the holes that life put them in. It’s truly game changing, at least for me.
Keep it up,