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Overcome Approach Anxiety Using State Shifting

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I used to have crippling approach anxiety. I remember the first time I hit Oxford Street with the intention of practicing Daygame. My goal was to approach as many women as I could in the 4 hours I had free. …

By • In Favourite Videos, Inner Game, Mindset, Videos on April 23, 2011 38

Being The Nice Guy That Turns Women On

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Tom Torero talking at a recent Daygame.com live event explains how being the nice guy doesn’t always mean finishing last, if you know how to do it. Read Tom’s excellent article on leading by clicking here.

By • In Outer Game, Videos, What To Say on March 15, 2011 14

How To Make Her Seduce You

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It is incredibly validating when a woman laughs at your jokes and responds positively to the energy you are throwing at her. It makes you think “holy ****, she likes me. Keep doing what you’re doing!”. And it’s a trap …

By • In Outer Game, Videos, What To Say on January 24, 2011 8

Five Texting Tips To Create More Desire For Day Twos

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In case you haven’t noticed the constant Mariah Carey songs, specials on TV and Mrs. Claus outfits popping up in Anne Summers- it’s Christmas. The time of year for pulling at parties… and then sending drunken texts after one too …

By • In Outer Game, Videos, What To Say on December 22, 2010 12

Practice Makes Perfect? Not Entirely

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Perfect Practice Makes Perfect Without going out and practicing Daygame, you simple cannot improve. In fact you cannot even learn. This is reality. Like learning any skill in the world, experiencing first hand carrying out that skill is invaluable to …

By • In Beliefs, Inner Game, Videos on December 10, 2010 6

Sasha’s Direct Mindset

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Hey kids! As you all know I’m going through a big “Direct” shift in my game. It’s fun! In this video I strive to get across what actually goes through my head when I see a beautiful woman…. And how …

By • In Outer Game, Videos, What To Say on November 13, 2010 46

Don’t Be Afraid Of Silence

Don’t Be Afraid Of Silence

A lot of us worry about what we’re going to talk about in conversation; we fear we’re going to run out of things to say when approaching and be left standing there with a blank expression on our face, twiddling …

By • In Outer Game, Videos, What To Say on September 22, 2010 22

How To Love Yourself And Boost Your Self Esteem

How To Love Yourself And Boost Your Self Esteem

The most important thing that you can ever learn is how to love yourself. A lot of people always ask what’s the perfect line to say or what opener to use, and they solely focus on the outer elements of …

By • In Inner Game, Self-Esteem, Videos on July 25, 2010 13

A Hilarious Example Of Self Amusement

A Hilarious Example Of Self Amusement

This all comes back to having fun. Remember that time long ago when you once had fun? *the readers digress back to their 7th birthday parties, where they all ate far too much cake before going on the bouncy-castle, only …

By • In Inner Game, Mindset, Videos on July 12, 2010 39

Use Momentum to Maintain Your Confidence With Women

Use Momentum to Maintain Your Confidence With Women

If a footballer is playing the best football of his life, as manager you wouldn’t substitute him off the pitch would you? (unless it’s already 4-0!). Sometimes you see a player playing out of his skin, and whenever he’s near …

By • In Confidence, Inner Game, Videos on July 3, 2010 17

Eliminate Approach Anxiety By Changing The Goal To “Have Fun”

Eliminate Approach Anxiety By Changing The Goal To “Have Fun”

You should never leave the house with the sole goal of picking up girls because this is the fundamental cause of approach anxiety. Approach anxiety is not fear of rejection, but fear of failure. So to eliminate approach anxiety you …

By • In Inner Game, Mindset, Videos on June 10, 2010 26

How To Get A Girl To Date You Instantly (Instant Date)

How To Get A Girl To Date You Instantly (Instant Date)

Getting phone numbers? Awesome – plough on fellow daygamer! You’re doing well! But there is another route to take the interaction if it is going well. Your next mission, should you choose to accept it, is to take a girl …

By • In Dating & Relationships, Getting a Date, Videos on May 28, 2010 14

Why You Can Become More Attractive To Women Every Time They Reject You

Why You Can Become More Attractive To Women Every Time They Reject You

Throughout my years of teaching, something that I have learned about students of daygame, is that as they set out on their quest to become more attractive to women, many of them do not anticipate any resistance from the girls …

By • In Confidence, Favourite Videos, Inner Game, Videos on May 15, 2010 27

Gain Confidence With Women By Practising Daygame

Gain Confidence With Women By Practising Daygame

There are many paths to gain confidence with women, and none of them are easy. But if you choose the daygame path, I promise you one thing. It will be fun. But it will only be fun if you practise …

By • In Confidence, Inner Game, Videos on May 11, 2010 29

How To Get A Date With A Girl Who Is “Out Of Your League”

How To Get A Date With A Girl Who Is “Out Of Your League”

Isn’t it strange how we often feel completely comfortable talking to girls we aren’t attracted to? We can just relax and be ourselves around them. They may be attractive, they may not, but for some reason you just aren’t attracted …

By • In Inner Game, Mindset, Videos on May 10, 2010 6