Inner Game

Overcome Approach Anxiety Using State Shifting

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I used to have crippling approach anxiety. I remember the first time I hit Oxford Street with the intention of practicing Daygame. My goal was to approach as many women as I could in the 4 hours I had free. …

By • In Favourite Videos, Inner Game, Mindset, Videos on April 23, 2011 38

Practice Makes Perfect? Not Entirely

Practice Makes Perfect

Perfect Practice Makes Perfect Without going out and practicing Daygame, you simple cannot improve. In fact you cannot even learn. This is reality. Like learning any skill in the world, experiencing first hand carrying out that skill is invaluable to …

By • In Beliefs, Inner Game, Videos on December 10, 2010 6

How To Love Yourself And Boost Your Self Esteem

How To Love Yourself And Boost Your Self Esteem

The most important thing that you can ever learn is how to love yourself. A lot of people always ask what’s the perfect line to say or what opener to use, and they solely focus on the outer elements of …

By • In Inner Game, Self-Esteem, Videos on July 25, 2010 13

A Hilarious Example Of Self Amusement

A Hilarious Example Of Self Amusement

This all comes back to having fun. Remember that time long ago when you once had fun? *the readers digress back to their 7th birthday parties, where they all ate far too much cake before going on the bouncy-castle, only …

By • In Inner Game, Mindset, Videos on July 12, 2010 39

Use Momentum to Maintain Your Confidence With Women

Use Momentum to Maintain Your Confidence With Women

If a footballer is playing the best football of his life, as manager you wouldn’t substitute him off the pitch would you? (unless it’s already 4-0!). Sometimes you see a player playing out of his skin, and whenever he’s near …

By • In Confidence, Inner Game, Videos on July 3, 2010 17

Eliminate Approach Anxiety By Changing The Goal To “Have Fun”

Eliminate Approach Anxiety By Changing The Goal To “Have Fun”

You should never leave the house with the sole goal of picking up girls because this is the fundamental cause of approach anxiety. Approach anxiety is not fear of rejection, but fear of failure. So to eliminate approach anxiety you …

By • In Inner Game, Mindset, Videos on June 10, 2010 26

Why You Can Become More Attractive To Women Every Time They Reject You

Why You Can Become More Attractive To Women Every Time They Reject You

Throughout my years of teaching, something that I have learned about students of daygame, is that as they set out on their quest to become more attractive to women, many of them do not anticipate any resistance from the girls …

By • In Confidence, Favourite Videos, Inner Game, Videos on May 15, 2010 27

Gain Confidence With Women By Practising Daygame

Gain Confidence With Women By Practising Daygame

There are many paths to gain confidence with women, and none of them are easy. But if you choose the daygame path, I promise you one thing. It will be fun. But it will only be fun if you practise …

By • In Confidence, Inner Game, Videos on May 11, 2010 29

How To Get A Date With A Girl Who Is “Out Of Your League”

How To Get A Date With A Girl Who Is “Out Of Your League”

Isn’t it strange how we often feel completely comfortable talking to girls we aren’t attracted to? We can just relax and be ourselves around them. They may be attractive, they may not, but for some reason you just aren’t attracted …

By • In Inner Game, Mindset, Videos on May 10, 2010 6

The Biggest Secret Of Attracting Women Is That Beautiful Girls Are Friendlier

The Biggest Secret Of Attracting Women Is That Beautiful Girls Are Friendlier

Most guys only approach girls that they believe are ‘in their league’. These are the girls you think you ‘deserve’, for whatever reason. Maybe it’s the way you look, how much money you have, how big your muscles are… everyone …

By • In Beliefs, Inner Game, Videos on May 7, 2010 9

Dating Tips For Men Who Want To Overcome Fear Of Rejection

Dating Tips For Men Who Want To Overcome Fear Of Rejection

I am going to say something that no one else ever really says: Rejection is awesome! Something wrong with all the dating tips for men out there at the moment is that they have tried to be too insightful of …

By • In Inner Game, Mindset, Videos on April 25, 2010 22