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Overcome Approach Anxiety Using State Shifting

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I used to have crippling approach anxiety. I remember the first time I hit Oxford Street with the intention of practicing Daygame. My goal was to approach as many women as I could in the 4 hours I had free. …

By • In Favourite Videos, Inner Game, Mindset, Videos on April 23, 2011 38

A Hilarious Example Of Self Amusement

A Hilarious Example Of Self Amusement

This all comes back to having fun. Remember that time long ago when you once had fun? *the readers digress back to their 7th birthday parties, where they all ate far too much cake before going on the bouncy-castle, only …

By • In Inner Game, Mindset, Videos on July 12, 2010 39

Eliminate Approach Anxiety By Changing The Goal To “Have Fun”

Eliminate Approach Anxiety By Changing The Goal To “Have Fun”

You should never leave the house with the sole goal of picking up girls because this is the fundamental cause of approach anxiety. Approach anxiety is not fear of rejection, but fear of failure. So to eliminate approach anxiety you …

By • In Inner Game, Mindset, Videos on June 10, 2010 26

How To Get A Date With A Girl Who Is “Out Of Your League”

How To Get A Date With A Girl Who Is “Out Of Your League”

Isn’t it strange how we often feel completely comfortable talking to girls we aren’t attracted to? We can just relax and be ourselves around them. They may be attractive, they may not, but for some reason you just aren’t attracted …

By • In Inner Game, Mindset, Videos on May 10, 2010 6

Dating Tips For Men Who Want To Overcome Fear Of Rejection

Dating Tips For Men Who Want To Overcome Fear Of Rejection

I am going to say something that no one else ever really says: Rejection is awesome! Something wrong with all the dating tips for men out there at the moment is that they have tried to be too insightful of …

By • In Inner Game, Mindset, Videos on April 25, 2010 22